Спасибо, portmaster помог.
а вот portupgrade не захотел работать :(tevent-0.9.18 < needs updating (port has 0.9.21)
root@PROXY:/ # portupgrade tevent-0.9.18
[Reading data from pkg(8) ... - 182 packages found - done]
---> Upgrading 'tevent-0.9.18' to 'tevent-0.9.21' (devel/tevent)
---> Building '/usr/ports/devel/tevent'
===> Cleaning for tevent-0.9.21
===> License LGPL3 accepted by the user
===> Found saved configuration for tevent-0.9.18
===> Fetching all distfiles required by tevent-0.9.21 for building
===> Extracting for tevent-0.9.21
=> SHA256 Checksum OK for tevent-0.9.21.tar.gz.
===> Patching for tevent-0.9.21
===> Applying FreeBSD patches for tevent-0.9.21
===> tevent-0.9.21 depends on file: /usr/local/bin/python2.7 - found
===> tevent-0.9.21 depends on executable: python2 - found
===> tevent-0.9.21 depends on executable: pkgconf - found
===> tevent-0.9.21 depends on package: talloc>=2.1.0 - not found
===> Found talloc-2.0.8, but you need to upgrade to talloc>=2.1.0.
*** [build-depends] Error code 1
Stop in /usr/ports/devel/tevent.
** Command failed [exit code 1]: /usr/bin/script -qa /tmp/portupgrade20140404-22
381-12dlmvb env UPGRADE_TOOL=portupgrade UPGRADE_PORT=tevent-0.9.18 UPGRADE_PORT
_VER=0.9.18 make
** Fix the problem and try again.
** Listing the failed packages (-:ignored / *:skipped / !:failed)
! devel/tevent (tevent-0.9.18) (unknown build error)
root@PROXY:/ #